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	<description>there are times I just have to exhale</description>
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		<title>Time To Dream</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 16:47:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had known how it was to dream&#8230; and to see my dreams dashed to the ground and trampled on. And so without consciously knowing it, I came to believe maybe I wasn&#8217;t worthy to have dreams&#8230; Because why was it every time I had a dream, it always  ended up being shattered? Bruised, battered [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=348&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Instructions for Life by The Dalai Lama</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Ways to Get Good Karma]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A friend shared this on Facebook and I wanted to post it here to keep a permanent record, so I can go back to it to be reminded&#8230; Wisdom from the Dalai Lama Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. Follow the three [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=327&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What Makes Me Happy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 10:25:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend, knowing the circumstances of my past tumultuous love life, once asked, &#8220;What makes you happy?&#8221; I only had one answer that didn&#8217;t need much thought&#8230; my Amara. Just thinking of her makes me happy. Now that she&#8217;s a strong-willed 3-year-old who doesn&#8217;t listen to most of what I say, it&#8217;s a little hard for me to recall how she [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=331&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Looking Back To Be Able To Move Forward</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2011 16:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[2011 will go down in my personal history as the year of not too many highs, and more of financial difficulty&#8230; my new year resolution of bringing down debt started off with good intentions then wobbled and plunged down the drain. I feel like I&#8217;ve always been a doom and gloom kind of girl, and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=323&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Realiy In The Eyes of a Single Mom</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 02:53:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being a single mom opens your eyes to the harsh realities of life. I&#8217;m sure a lot of single moms ended up being one not entirely by choice. Yes, we choose to end an unhealthy relationship, we choose not to be a martyr, we choose to uphold our dignity and self-worth. But we didn&#8217;t choose [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=312&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Journey To Happiness</title>
		<link>http://itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com/2011/08/29/the-journey-to-happiness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 13:36:31 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Catharsis Series]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Happiness is a journey]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[moping]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[not a destination.]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[For some reason I just feel sad when I shouldn&#8217;t. Today is the best part of the rare long weekend and I had a wonderful bonding moment with my favorite girl. On a day confused if it wanted to rain or not, off we went to the mall to have her enrolled at play school. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=309&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Service: Simply A Response</title>
		<link>http://itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com/2011/07/22/service-simply-a-response/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 08:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[extreme makeover talks]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once you attend the Feast, life will never be the same again. Last week was Talk 2 of the Extreme Makeover series: Serve. Through the worship songs, prayers and Bro. Randy Borromeo’s talk, our hearts were filled with God’s presence and love. Realizing the many things the Lord has done for us, it created a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=306&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Advice from Relationship Coach Aileen Santos</title>
		<link>http://itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com/2011/03/29/advice-from-relationship-coach-aileen-santos/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 03:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tweaking some minor details, this letter writer could have been me a couple of years ago&#8230; I love the advice! Very sensible and near the truth. The Relationship Coach &#124; Columns &#124; FemaleNetwork.com. What do you do when the love of your life chooses someone else? Hi, Ms. Aileen, I&#8217;m in my early 20s and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=288&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Tell Your Story</title>
		<link>http://itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com/2010/10/28/tell-your-story/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2010 06:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tell your stories. Your neighbors may not understand you, but they will understand your soul. Stories are the last bridge left to allow different cultures to communicate among each other.  ~ Paulo Coelho I&#8217;ve been meaning to revive this blog and post an update about what&#8217;s been going on for the year of silence. It&#8217;s [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=275&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>A Peck of Pink Pepper’s Not My Pick</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 13:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[SM Mall of Asia restaurant]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[What would matter most to you when dining out? For some it would be how delicious the food is or the uniqueness of a particular restaurant’s offering. For others it would be the ambience, the cleanliness of the place or the attention given to the interior decorations. To many people, no matter how excellent the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=itsnotjustaboutme.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6080616&amp;post=266&amp;subd=itsnotjustaboutme&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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